Erotic Shame & Humiliation

In our day-to-day lives, we usually try to avoid the feeling of shame at all costs.

But shame as a conscious and consensual tool to play with humiliation in a kink context can be very delicious, hot, and ultimately very satisfying. Shame play and humiliation are considered psychological play and can be very powerful types of engaging in kink for all people involved.

So how do you play with shame and humiliation in a good, positive, and empowering way?

How do you welcome a feeling that you would usually try to avoid and how do you hold space for a person that is experiencing shame?

In this course, Emma Steel - together with her lovely assistant Miss Tobi - dives deep into her favorite topic.

Her knowledge of kink and her training in psychology will help you understand and navigate this topic and find your way into playing with shame.


This course will cover:

- How to recognize and understand shame

- How shame feels in your body?

- Roles within shame play

- How to work with unwelcome shame and trauma

- Boundaries, Consent, Negotiation, and Aftercare

- How to initiate playing with shame


Play Fight & Rough Body Play

Physical play, fighting, tussling, grappling, bawling - play fighting can be so much fun if you know how to fight safely.

Love play fighting but wanna make it more kinky?

No problem at all. Our resident fight expert René's got you covered on both topics and will introduce you to the in's & out's of play fighting as well as the kinky, fun and sometimes deliciously mean things you can do if you want to engage in rough body play. Together with experts Montserrat and Laina we'll show you everything there is to this topic plus a ton of fight demonstrations to give you an idea how you can combine this activity with other kinks any dynamics.

Are you ready to rumble?

This course will

  • explain the similarities and differences between play fighting and rough body play
  • teach you everything about safety and fight preparation
  • go through the entire body anatomy and show where you can hit/punch/squeeze/bite etc. and where not
  • teach you about consent, intentions and how to negotiate your scene
  • teach you all relevant fighting techniques from how to make a fist all the way up to how to integrate intimate body parts
  • show you different fight beginnings, dynamics and talk about the psychology of fighting
  • add kinky dynamics and other kinky techniques and how to integrate them safely into your rough body play
  • provide you with tons of fight demonstrations from fun "capture the sock" scenarios all the way to kinky sadomasochistic rough body play

This course requires a partner to be able to try out all the exercises. If you have no partner you can still do the course, however it will be a much more theoretical learning.

course duration: approx. 6h

Find your Kinks

The world of kink is large and bountiful. Time to explore it! But where and how to start?

This course is designed for everyone who is beginning their own kink journey and would like to go on a deep and fun exploration of themselves and their own sexuality. We offer you a safe and completely judgement free space to slowly explore the abundant world of BDSM in its many facets and find the things you like and love.

We do more than help you find the kink(s) that might turn you on. Together with Caritia you can not only explore what's out there and how it's done safely but also explore WHY certain activities might attract you and others. This exploration of kink is also a guided journey into your own desires, wishes and needs.

This course will

  • guide you through larger topics of kink
  • explain and demonstrate common kinky activities to give you an idea of what they are, as well as examples of what they can look like
  • give you substantial knowledge in terms of boundaries setting, consent negotiation
  • talk about kink and psychology, kink and trauma and the difference between kink and abuse
  • explain kink terms and vocabulary
  • provide lots of demos and playful examples
  • offer different positions you can adopt according to your body and ability
  • talk about what makes something kinky
  • help you define what a fetish is
  • give you lots of resources and tools to find and safely explore your kinks


course duration: approx. 15h