Erotic Shame & Humiliation

In our day-to-day lives, we usually try to avoid the feeling of shame at all costs.

But shame as a conscious and consensual tool to play with humiliation in a kink context can be very delicious, hot, and ultimately very satisfying. Shame play and humiliation are considered psychological play and can be very powerful types of engaging in kink for all people involved.

So how do you play with shame and humiliation in a good, positive, and empowering way?

How do you welcome a feeling that you would usually try to avoid and how do you hold space for a person that is experiencing shame?

In this course, Emma Steel - together with her lovely assistant Miss Tobi - dives deep into her favorite topic.

Her knowledge of kink and her training in psychology will help you understand and navigate this topic and find your way into playing with shame.


This course will cover:

- How to recognize and understand shame

- How shame feels in your body?

- Roles within shame play

- How to work with unwelcome shame and trauma

- Boundaries, Consent, Negotiation, and Aftercare

- How to initiate playing with shame


Wax Play

It is so exciting to play with fire. Many of us like to play with edges and finding out our body's limitations.

This course is designed for everyone who is beginning their journey into wax play or those who wish to refresh their basic knowledge.

This course will

  • give a basic level on where wax play can happen on the body
  • give health and safety considerations around wax play
  • offer suggestions on needs to be in your space
  • give tips and tricks on the different types of wax that are available to use
  • offer techniques and suggestions on timing and pace
  • covers wax specific boundaries, negotiation, and consensual play
  • gives demonstrations on wax play technique & other tools you may wish to use on the body
  • demonstrate the importance of care throughout any play
  • share feedback and reflection from Manon & Caritia

and much more.

course duration: approx. 3h